21 Things I Learned by 21

Today I turn 21 years old. Let that sink in. Two - one. Twenty one. THE BIG 2-1! I still can't wrap my mind around it... but I've spent a lot of time this summer reflecting, and it's incredible to me how far I have come in my 21 years of life. Here's a look at the most important lessons I've learned, and here's hoping that Year 21 has a lot of good things in store for me.

1. Things don't always need to go according to plan.
2. But, don't underestimate the importance of a good list and a full planner.
3. There is nothing better than taking time for yourself. Just be alone with some music, a journal, or a TV show.. whatever you're feeling.
4. Eventually you have to let go of the past and move forward.
5. Boys are not everything. Sometimes (most of the time) we are better off without them.
6. You have to learn to love yourself first before you can love someone else.
7. "So life becomes the expression of happiness instead of the pursuit of happiness"
8. We are not bound to like every situation or person. Accept these things as they are.
9. Take advantage of everything life has to offer. You can't sit at home every night.
10. We can't compare our lives to other people's, especially in an age when so much value is put on social media.
11. A best friend is an invaluable gift. Cherish the people who stand by you even in your toughest times.
12. It's okay to call your mother three, four, five times a day.
13. Stay humble.
14. Not everyone will offer the same breadth of loyalty to you as you extend to them. Don't let yourself get taken for granted.
15. Knowledge is power but enthusiasm pulls the switch.
16. Do what makes you happy, even if others don't understand it.
17. Put 110% effort into all you do. "Lukewarm is no good"
18. Take responsibility for your wrongs and apologize when necessary.
19. Good things come to those who work hard and want success. Don't settle for quick results, think about the big picture.
20. Not a single person is perfect, our flaws are what make each of us unique. Embrace your quirks.
21. Faith does not need to be big or small. Sometimes, it helps to know there is something out there far much greater than ourselves, whatever that may be.

I am humbled and so grateful for everything that life has offered to me already and look forward to what the future has in store! Thanks for sticking around with me and keeping up with my crazy life.. now, it's time to pop the champagne!!